‏الجهاد والسير‏ : Hadeeth No:4300 The Messenger of Allaah (may peace he upon him) has been reported by Anas b. Malik to have said: Show leniency; do not be hard; give solace and do not create aversion....

‏السلام : Hadeeth No:5523 'Abdullah b. 'Umar reported Allaah's Messenger (sallAllaahu alayhi wa sallam) as saying: If there be bad luck, it is in the house, and the wife, and the horse....