‏الزكاة : Hadeeth No:2254 Hakim b. Hizam reported Allaah's Messenger (sallAllaahu alayhi wa sallam) having said this: The most excellent Sadaqa or the best of Sadaqa is that after giving which the (giver) remains rich and the upper hand is better than the lower hand, and begin from the members of your household....

‏التوبة : Hadeeth No:6633 This hadith has been transmitted on the authority of Mu'tamir, reported on the authority of his father....