‏الزكاة : Hadeeth No:2254 Hakim b. Hizam reported Allaah's Messenger (sallAllaahu alayhi wa sallam) having said this: The most excellent Sadaqa or the best of Sadaqa is that after giving which the (giver) remains rich and the upper hand is better than the lower hand, and begin from the members of your household....

‏الجهاد والسير‏ : Hadeeth No:4409 It has been narrated on the authority of Anas b. Malik who said: When they (Companions of the Prophet) were overwhelmed with grief and distress on his return from Hudaibiya where he had slaughtered his sacrificial beasts (not being allowed to proceed to Mecca), the Qur'anic verse: Inna fatahna... la...